If you would have asked me at the beginning of this summer if I would
move back to Chicago after graduation, I would have smiled & said
no. Why did I limit it out so quickly? The idea of living in Chicago
seemed like the "easy" thing to do, rather than where I truly wanted to
be. (Side note: We live in an economy where you go for the job before
the location, and
the fact that I even considered this is pretty ridiculous. What a
Millennial mindset). It's the simple routine for a North Shore young
adult- go to high school, receive a good college education, find a job
in downtown Chicago, get an apartment there with some high
school/college friends and take the Metra back to your parents' house
when you need free food or a car. Pretty straightforward, right?
Over the past few years, I started to fall in love with some
U.S. cities I have visited and considered them places to move after
graduation. The opportunities I've had to travel throughout college
pointed out how other people live and feel compatible in the cities they
reside in. Cities like Boulder, DC, Kansas City, Boston, San Diego and
New York all have very different feels and I made a conscious effort to
observe how people find comfort there. I could envision myself living
and working in some of them, but thought of others as livable, but a
place I'd rather keep as a vacation spot. Particularly, I fell in love
with San Diego for its west coast feel, diverse culture, medium-sized
town feel and proximity to Mexico.
When you travel or vacation somewhere, you spend a lot of time becoming acquainted with the area and trying all the best-of-the-bests.
Studying abroad in Buenos Aires taught me the true meaning of this. My
roommates and I bought travel books and made efforts to hit every
attraction and restaurant we could. We would choose a burrow of town and
explore it in and out--its art museums, parks, churches, food--and
create an impression from there. I applied this travel mindset to every city I went to and explored the streets of them as well.
After my parents decided to transition to Milwaukee, Chicago really
became out of the picture for next summer's job search. But, working a
wonderful internship this summer in Chicago right on Wacker & State
Street has changed my mind.
As I sat on the Metra train
commuting from the suburbs to the city everyday for ~80 minutes, I
pondered about my last few summers in Argentina and at Project Mexico. I
can tell you every cross street, where to eat, where the places to be
are and what I like about each section of town. And while I can do that
with the North suburbs of Chicago, I definitely cannot do that with the
city. And that is not okay.
I'm familiar with the tourist
areas from showing friends around, and could easily navigate Michigan
Avenue, Millennium Park, Sheridan Avenue, Navy Pier or Evanston. But the
fact that I couldn't tell you which bars to go to in Lincoln Park or
Lakeview, where to eat in Wicker Park or what's in Lincoln Square is
pathetic. Being "from the suburbs" is not a valid excuse. So having a
lot of good friends working downtown--we made it our goal to see as many
areas of the city as we could and just EXPLORE. Any unfamiliar
territory was game--for happy hour, dinner or even just roaming around.
Our attempts at reaching this goal have been pretty successful.
Driving down Lake Shore Drive puts a smile to my face. I've killed the
River North area, went through most of the Loop, gone through Grant
Park, the strip by North Avenue Beach and gone out in Lincoln Park. But
the feeling sparked me that there was so much more to see. I wasn't done
yet.
So stay open-minded about where to live and don't
feel like you're settling if you're staying where you're grew up. There
are still places to see--in both the city and the suburbs--and just
because it was routine when you were younger doesn't mean there's not
more to life there.
Check out some photos of some of the Chicago adventures this summer!
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The river view from a window in my office |
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The guacamole woman at a beautiful rooftop restaurant in River North |
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Anna and I at Oak Street Beach downtown |
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What a view from a beach! |
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The view of Montrose Beach from a friend's apartment |
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The lobby of the Palmer House |
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And this is more touristy- but got to go on a boat cruise at work & see the skyline! |
Special edition: You can even have fun in the suburbs!
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Meredith and I rode our bikes to the Botanic Gardens where I hadn't been since middle school- so nice! |
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Helen and Dean gambling at Rivers Casino in Des Plaines! |
And Greek festivals, of course!