Wednesday, April 21, 2010

Reflections

Now that you have scrolled below and seen the photos from the past two weeks, I'll elaborate on my thoughts and realizations I have made!

Last night (4-20), I attended an Invisible Children speaker and documentary for political science extra credit. I never would have described myself as an activist and have seen the Invisible Children documentary, but was touched by the videos the "GO" video presented and it made me incredibly excited to go to Mexico.

GO was about teenagers from the top-fundraising high schools who gave money to Invisible Children taking a trip to Northern Uganda and their experiences getting to know the kids. I became very empathetic and was in tears, as inspirational words in the movie were things like "What we've been given, it is your responsibility to give back. Think instead where you can GO." I'm just elated at my decision to go to Mexico, even though I'm not living in Columbia and getting in-state tuition, and can't wait to get to know the boys at the orphanage, other interns, participants, community and staff. A girl in the movie also said "It's time for us, the leaders of tomorrow, to be the leaders today," which was too much inspiration and push for activism in one night for me apparently. In less than two months from today, I'll be doing just that in Tijuana at St. Innocent Orphanage! But on my list of future charities to write checks to once I'm rich, Invisible Children was added :), so I'm glad I felt I needed a better grade in poli sci enough to attend this documentary viewing!

It was a day full of empathy, because earlier Tuesday morning, my journalism course was discussing Jayson Blair, a former New York Times writer who had fabricated stories and sources, like Stephen Glass in Shattered Glass. I did a Wikipedia search on Blair just to understand the background a little bit more, and found some ironic information. After he was essentially forced to resign, this amazing guy Jayson "has worked as a life coach in the field of mental health." Good job being a hypocrite...you must have some mental issues to feel the need to make up details, people, feelings, information and more. I proceeded to read examples of what he had created, and started to cry in the middle of class. It tore me apart that he could make up stories about soldiers in the hospital, injuries and worse, and had to stop reading what he made up. Good thing I didn't read the New York Times when Blair was a writer? The day of tears continued, sometimes I get too emotionally involved in stories people tell me about themselves. But everyone and everything is okay, except obviously in the third-world countries, but Meredith convinced me that for now, everything is fine :D.

....On to another story, the entire world really is connected:
Now that I am back on Facebook, I'm not on there quite as much but still do my usual checkups/look at photos. One of the PAs in my hall had a new profile picture, so I clicked on it. I accidentally clicked the left arrow which took me back to her older profile pictures, and one of them was with a friend. My impulsive Facebook stalking abilities told me to click on this girl, and even though she didn't go to Mizzou and attended a college in Texas, we had four mutual friends. Which was kind of odd because there really isn't a reason I would know a PA in my building's friends from home. But those mutual friends were the Stornellos and essentially the PA (Lindsay's) best friend from high school is Lena (my goddaughter)'s FIRST COUSIN!!! How weird is that?!

Last story: J-Week. All of Mizzou knows about E-Week (Engineering), and even the business and education schools have pretty big 'weeks,' but the J-Week schedule is out and incredibly lame. Laura pointed out how we're the ones who claim our college as the most credible and best on Mizzou's campus, but we can't plan an over-the-top week of commemorative events like those engineering boys can. Kind of contradictory, but just another observation.

Have a great weekend and thanks for reading!

Spring in Missouri

The month of April is going by faster and faster! We went to a toga party the other night and then on Tuesday, Mizzou Student Foundation held Mizzou Mile!


Mizzou Student Foundation (MSF) 2010
Mizzou Mile is one of MSF's events to condone the private donations to campus and raise money for textbook scholarships for students each semester! We were the cross guards on the scenic mile route around campus, explaining Katie and I's highlighter vests on the right! We got to wear our polos, official Mizzou name tags and soft shell jackets as we watched ROTC and 100 other people participate. Truman made an appearance, as did other donors to the event, like AMP (see left)! The last time I had AMP was when I had 3 cans at Relay For Life! As of now, I am the first of my friends to receive a soft shell jacket, quite a big deal here. Alyssa and I were trying to discover why every steering committee is obsessed with them, and we think it's because they're rain proof. Yay for an awesome, North-Face warm free jacket! And membership to MSF of course!


Phi Mu's Moms Weekend is coming up so Patricia will be arriving tomorrow, be excited to see mother-daughter pictures! Thanks for reading and seeing pictures from the mile and toga party :)!

Phi Mu Life: April Edition

Phi Mu has definitely kept me busy upon returning from Greek Week. Besides Greek Week which you can read all about here, we had our Miracle Men philanthropy event for Children's Miracle Network and raised roughly $3,000! Here are some group pictures of us in our shirts and at the event:


Then that weekend, we had a sisterhood retreat in Monroe City, Missouri! Talk about middle of nowhere. We were at a lake by Mark Twain Lake at a facility called Mark Twain landing, and I had one of those rural life visions. First, observe the trailer park behind the lake. There was a wedding there. In t-shirts and capris. They had their reception at our facility's karaoke night, which all of Phi Mu was at singing and dancing to. The couple dancing is pictured below, they seemed 17 years old. The djs were both smoking pipes and loved singing themselves, as seen in the photos of the hicks :P. The wedding attendees drove to the wedding in golf carts...and it was just a crazy environment. I'm glad I have always lived in a city where I can buy food and know that there's somewhere to go (aka a Walmart within 20 miles), have clothes to wear and not live off free t-shirts from the facility (although we know I love free shirts--the groom had a Mark Twain Landing shirt on), and not drive on gravel roads to get to where I need to go.





Karaoke time!


In addition to these pictures, we did a lot of team building activities and fun games, really enjoying a fun weekend of sisterhood.

Monday, April 12, 2010

April Updates and the Facebook challenge

Welcome back to the updates world! Some of you might have assumed that being back on Facebook would deter me from updating this, and you are completely false. The end of this semester is going to fly by, as the first week and a half has. The end of spring break approached quickly, with my Christmas-present touchscreen camera becoming infected with sand in the 75 degree weather at Northwestern beach. Hanging out with Becca's dorm friends on the lovely beach made for a great break though! Here's the last picture the camera took:


Don't worry, a new camera from the protection plan is on it's way, coming to Mizzou on April 23 when Patricia comes down for Moms weekend! (Yes, I just typed Patricia). I'm using my old camera at school for now and had to use an old Nikon at home. Yay for backup plans.


Over spring break, Maria, Eleni and I decided we get along again so what a better way to proclaim this then bonding in the Anastasi service at church as Holy Week approached its end, or having a photoshoot. It was nice that our SSPP group got to reunite this Easter, hopefully everyone's breaks will fall similarly in the future!!!



This weekend John had the experience of seeing Mizzou and coming to visit! Phi Mu's formal was Saturday night, after a lovely drive and dinner at St. Louis Union Station with John, Kathryn, Shaina & Amy on Friday. Kathryn took Kate to formal so the four of us have wonderful photos in the Twain 5th floor elevator lobby beforehand :).


In the formal living room!


I won the emerging leader award, and we took this photo for the Phi Mu blog which if you haven't seen, should totally check out at this link! In the picture are the best big-little pairing and best members from each pledge class. Yay!


Some girls on the dance floor!



So, all of this made for a great weekend which was good to end a stressful week and begin another one :). Mizzou's 20 day Greek Week is partially insane, but almost over, and everything else is pretty solid. Hope all is well!!

Interesting find of the day

So today, I was reading the most recent issue of Time Magazine with bribing children for good grades on the cover. Kara got me this subscription for graduation, which has come into great use as a journalism major and just to see what's going on internationally rather than in the US or Columbia, plus Laura has me addicted to Joel Stein columns.

The technology section is usually pretty interesting, introducing me to multiple cool gadgets but never really anything ideal for students, just things that are good to know exist. So this one came up today called the TigerText program and I highly advise you to read this article, "Without a Trace."

Essentially this program available on Smartphones (like iPhones, Blackberries, etc.) allows the sender "to determine how soon after it is opened it will be erased from TigerText's server. The recipient cannot forward or save the message."


It made me cry. I can't identify quite the feeling, but the aspect of how nobody will have proof of anything anymore puts tears in my eyes. Even if teenagers delete calls or texts from their call history, in the past couple of years there are ways for the provider to save such records. But with an external program that literally will "self-destruct" text messages, only horrible things can happen.

Besides the whole gossip and information side of it, there's so much more. Girls who are being sexually harrassed are in a horrible position of sex offenders are using these tools on their phones. Adults who are cheating in their relationships are probably rejoicing, which puts more tears to my eye. What are government officials going to send to each other? What level has 'privacy' come to that people are sending something in a text message SO private and untrustworthy in another person's record that it must disappear?

I'm sorry, but if you have something so important to tell someone that it can't be on a record or trusted in someone's phone, you can tell them in person.

Wednesday, April 7, 2010

Stress!

It's been so busy since after Spring Break and Easter that I haven't even had time to blog!! Oh no!! More updates to come soon!